Ok so heres another thing on gossip- lets just say its a temptation for me and its really, really hard when my claim to be christian friends wont stop gossiping and doing junk like putting me down and trying to justify themselves... argh. Well anyway i did somr research and heres what i found on how to confront it
Gossip 101 (how to confont it with christians)
Proverbs 11:13 A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy man keeps a secret.
16:18 A perverse man stirs up dissension, and a gossip seperates close friends.
18:8 The words of a gossip are like choice morsels, they go down to a mans innmost parts.
26:20 Without wood a fire goes out, without gossip a quarrel dies down.
17:19 He who loves a quarrel loves sin, he who builds a high gate invites destruction.
17:17 A friend loves at all times and a brother is born for adversity.
Ok so at the end of each set im going to explain my reasoning- these verses are all obviously talking about gossip. If you have a good christian friend that will be like oh im sorry i didnt mean to then it probably wont be best to charge in loaded with a bunch of bible verses saying you are so bad blah blah blah- but in my situation(where they are comfortable with gossip and wont say sorry lets help each other) we mite want to say " hey, its not just my opinion heres what God has to say" and give them these bible verses. of course, i also found some other bible verses that suggest it mite not be wise to do that with some people
Romans 7:10 I found that the very commandment that was intended to bring life actually brought death
This i think is like saying " sometimes if you push scripture into peoples faces it will just make them reject the message you are trying to get across"
IM NOT DONE SO I GUESS ITS TO BE CONTINUED...
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